How can i stop chasing him. Please need some good advice right about now?

Hi there, sorry you're going through with your guy. You said you love him so you probably don't want to hear just leave him. What you can do is to change the way you present yourself to him. You can change the way you react to his verbal abuse and you can change the way you have time for him. I don't really tolerate anybody speaking to me the way he speaks to you, but then again, I don't speak to onone that way either. Don't go tit for. Tat and back and forth with him. Only a fool will argue with themselves. You say he's doing some testing so he could be stressed and take it out on you. Have some love and respect for yourself and tell him you're sorry he's so stressed out but you can't be his emotional punching bag. Tell him if he decides he wants to talk to you like a person he cares about then you're all ears, but you also have to be respectful with him. Also I would not be so available to him. Cut him off from all the time you've been giving in texting and give that time to yourself. You have to teach him how you want to be treated by reward system because right now he has learned that he can treat you badly and you'll still be there for Him. Open up your schedual and go out with friends, even go out with yourself and don't change plans for him. He will love and respect you a lot more when he sees that you love and respect yourself. Absolutely don't call him multiple time while he. Sits there and looks at the phone and laughs. Its a power and ego thing and you need to tell yourself that you will not be a part of it. Take some confidence classes and get a new hairdo and feel good about your sexy self and flaunt it in front of him. Don't let him touch your new found hotness because he doesn't deserve it. Don't give away anymore of your power to him, expect better behavior from him and you'll see a change. By then, I doubt you will still want him because you would have lost respect for him. Good luck anyways. Oh, the problem here is that he is taking you for granted because you let him.